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Missy and Timbaland In the Studio?

Don't quote me on this, but there are strong indications that Missy Elliott and Timbaland have gotten over their differences, whatever they were, and are in the studio cooking up some heat.

Rihanna Is Taking Pointers From Beyonce What A Shame

You would think being sued for ripping off concepts by two different famous photographers would deter Rihanna from ripping off concepts from famous photographers. You would be wrong...

Rihanna's latest video 'You Da One' is being raked across the coals right now by photography aficionados for the blatant concept jack of photographer Solve Sundsbo.

Drake Tattooed Aaliyah's Face on His Back

Though he never got a chance to actually meet her, Drake is serious about his Aaliyah obsession. Over the weekend topless photos of Drake surfaced online revealing the late singer's face tattooed on his back...

10 Ways to Combat Winter Hair Shedding Naturally

Stress from my work had caused me to stop eating as well, and stay up late, which led to coffee-laden afternoons, and insomnia-ridden nights. Exercise? Yeah right. So since the beginning of the year, I’ve actively been trying to approach my hair and scalp health from the inside out. And it’s been working!

Here’s what I did:

10 Steps to Combat Winter Hair Shedding Naturally

1. Drink more water – I’m up to 6 glasses a day, plus I’m eating more fruits and veggies. I hate drinking cold water in cold weather, so I either drink it room temp, or hot with a twist of lemon.

2. Get more sleep – I’ve been pretty good about getting to bed my midnight, gonna shoot for 11pm next month.

3. Find ways to destress – Believe it or not, your haircan fall out temporarily due to stress.

4. Wear protective styles – I’ll post more on this soon, but I’ve been keeping my hair in two-strand twists and it’s really made a huge difference

5. Wear silk or satin scarves - Instead of throwing out your wool hats, you can wear scarves under them for a cute look. You can slo invest in one of those silk bonnets, I put this one on under my hat sometimes. I also really like those “snoopy” hats, because the fur is nice and soft and won’t snag hair

6. Take a vitamin supplement – I’m back to taking my daily multiple, and a biotin supplements . Biotin as well as other B vitamins can be beneficial for hair growth and for preventing hair loss.

7. Rinse hair with tea – I will go into detail in an upcoming post, but apparently the tannins in tea are beneficial to the hair shaft. I’ve been using cooled black and sometimes green tea as a weekly rinse as a deep conditioner and it’s made a WORLD of difference in terms of detangling and shedding.

8. Sleep on a Satin pillow – When I travel, I bring an extra-wide scarf and just tie it around the pillow.

9. Never detangle your hair when it’s dry – I only detangle my hair section by section with a Shower comb when it’s sopping wet and each section is full of conditioner and a few drops of oil.

10. Moisturize and Trim your ends

Please STOP Acting Like You Can Just TELL How Good Someone Is In Bed

If you hang around a group of guys in a public setting long enough, the one thing that you will notice is men LOVE to rate women. Regardless on whether we are single, married, interested or completely uninterested, we have the burning desire to state OUR own opinion on her level of sexiness (the “dimepiece” scale) – but if you listen CAREFULLY you will notice something else:We also simultaneously rate her NANI – even without ever seeing any PART of the p*ssy.

See, in a man’s mind, the sexier the woman is, the better she will be in bed. I’m not sure why we make this automatic assumption but it definitely is a very indepth part of how we choose to judge and analyze women, not just from a solely superficial standpoint, but even from a dating perspective. Now understand, it’s NOT as simplistic as saying we think ugly women are horrible in bed (even though that IS the prevailing ideology amongst the majority of men) but we love BELIEVING we can just TELL exactly how a woman is in bed simply by observing her.

For instance, take Bria Myles in the pic above: Most dudes will look at her curvaceous body, butter smooth skin tone, openness with displaying her body (amongst a few other tips) to deduce she is a dimepiece and therefore, with all previous facts duly

noted, believe that her vagina squirts water from the fountain of youth and her pubic hair is actually finely woven unicorn mane.Basically, her nani can cure manic depression and fight crime.

Another example is this: Every man has a homegirl he finds extremely cute, she is nice, walks puppies, feeds the homeless, sings in the Church choir AND teaches Sunday School, who’s a straight-A student who spends her nights reading and studying. She doesn’t know how to dance or make it clap, but damn if she don’t know how to balance a check book. Well ladies, men will judge HER P*ssy too.

Now smart brothers will realize that she has just as much potential as being great in bed as any woman, but the MAJORITY of men will take her looks, lifestyle and public sexual aura into account to deduce that she is probably decent but not like Bria. Basically her nani ain’t curing cancer, but it will stop a migraine dead in its tracks.

And then, you have the UNDESIRABLES. The women who, depending on how much they dress down when they go out to grocery shop, you may mistake for a 1990′s dancehall singer or power forward on an NBA basketball team. These women

we ignorantly relegate to chicks we “KNOW” have TERRIBLE nani. Not only is her nani not curing cancer, migraines or the flu, but you feel like it will cause MORE hunger in Somalia and tsunami’s in Japan.

"Your nani made the world an unhappier place for EVERYBODY!"

Well I got news for y’all: The best and worst thing about a human beings intrinsic sexual nature is how unpredictable it is. The most amazing sex you EVER have in your life actually MAY come from a woman who looks and acts completely the opposite of what you think a TRUE freak should. While the most horrible sex you ever have may come from a girl who looked like Paula Patton, knew how to dutty wine and had a phat ass.

But ladies, YOU need to STOP doing this BS too, because women LOVE to equate the way a man looks and acts to his performance in bed, and those of y’all with experience have been burned (so to speak) enough times to stop making that damn mistake. You think just cause a dude got 3 tattoo’s, an earring, fresh hair cut, 6 pack and big hands that those things automatically equate into multiples for you? HELL NAW – it’s just a big giant toss-up